Suspicion arises out of uncertainty or doubt in another person’s character, ability or his commitment.
A little analysis will reveal that it reflects the weakness of one's own mind.
When we suspect a person we can do any one of the following:
Can alienate oneself from the person on the grounds of suspicion, thus ending the suspicion.
Can ignore the suspicion itself if you trust enough! Or express one's feeling openly and seek clarification.
The last thing and the disastrous course is nurturing this suspicion.
By doing so a large chunk of productive time is invested in cross verification and spying.
Indeed it is nothing short of self inflicted torture. The person suffers immensely dwelling in this negative trait.
A suspicious mind believes more than it doubts. Yes! It believes in a formidable and ineradicable evil lurking in every person.
Doubt enough till you trust; Having trusted never ever doubt!
Weighing the Pros and Cons of suspecting,
It is better to be occasionally cheated than being Perpetually Suspicious.
Remember Pure Love and Suspicion cannot dwell together, at the door where the latter enters, the former makes its exit.
Decide which one you want ! |